The short version: be someone people are glad to sit across from.
A Quickies night only works if everyone in the room feels comfortable. That is not a nice-to-have, it is the whole product. Here is what we expect, and what we will do about it if it does not happen.
What we expect from you
- Come as yourself. The name you book with should be your real first name, and you should look like a person your date would recognize from across the table.
- Take no for an answer, the first time. That applies to a number, a drink, a dance, a follow-up, or a conversation someone is trying to end.
- Keep your hands to yourself unless it is clearly welcome.
- Do not comment on anyone's body. Not as a compliment, not as a joke.
- Drink like you want to remember the night. We will ask you to leave if you are visibly drunk, and you will not get a refund.
- Do not photograph or record anyone without asking. Plenty of people have not told their friends they came.
- What happens in the room stays there. Do not post about someone else's night, and do not out anyone who came.
- Nobody is here to be sold to. No recruiting, no pitching, no networking.
- You must be 18 or over. We check.
Not matching is not a grievance
Nobody owes you a match, a heart, a phone number, or a reason. If someone did not tap you, that is the end of it. Do not ask the host who liked you, and do not try to find someone who did not match with you afterwards. The private part of this stays private, permanently.
If something feels wrong
Tell the host. They are running the room and they would much rather hear it during the night than read about it a week later. You do not need proof, you do not need to be sure, and you will not be talked out of it.
You can also email hello@quickies.com any time, before or after an event. If you would rather not be identified, say so and we will work with that.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911 first. We will follow up after.
What we do about it
We take the account of the person who felt unsafe seriously, and we act on it. Depending on what happened, that means a private word, removal from the event without a refund, or a permanent ban from Quickies nights. We do not require the person raising it to confront anyone, and we do not make them explain themselves to the person they are reporting.
We would rather lose a ticket sale than keep someone in the room who is making it worse. That is a standing policy, not a case-by-case judgment call.
What you can expect from us
- A host who is present all night and actually managing the room, not sitting at the door on their phone.
- A public venue with staff, never a private residence.
- Your picks stay private. Only mutual matches are ever revealed, and only to the two people involved.
- We never sell your data or hand your contact details to another attendee. A match can message you inside Quickies. What you share beyond that is your call.
- Honest marketing. We will not invent attendance numbers, fake local activity, or run a night we know is not going to fill without telling you.
Questions about any of this: hello@quickies.com. Last updated August 5, 2026.